my perspective

Thursday, April 26, 2007

Eminem - A true modern poet

Eminem is a true poet

If you don't belive me read below and judge yourself.


That's why we sing for these kids who don't have a thing
Except for a dream and a fucking rap magazine
Who post pinup pictures on their walls all day long
Idolise their favourite rappers and know all they songs
Or for anyone who's ever been through shit in their lives
So they sit and they cry at night, wishing they die
Till they throw on a rap record, and they sit and they vibe
We're nothing to you, but we're the fuckin' shit in their eyes
That's why we sieze the moment, and try to freeze it and own it
Squeeze it and hold it, 'cos we consider these minutes golden
And maybe they'll admit it when we're gone
Just let our spirits live on, through out lyrics that you hear in our songs

Thursday, March 01, 2007

Men and Women choice of sex

I was asked few days ago by a student reporter (female) at Ryerson University about my opinion on student teacher sexual relationship in Universities. I told her I didn't have any problem with it as long as the student is an adult. The reporter's facial expression and body language indicated not only she was surprised at my reply but also she was very against student teacher sexual relationship. She tried to oppose my views with her biased arguments. One of them was a student could be very emotinally vulnerable at 19 (majority of the students entering first year fall within age group 19-20) and the teacher could unjustifiably play with her vulnerbale emotion. The reporter didn't think it was right because not only she thought the teacher (assuming the teacher was much older than the student) was much emotionally stable at an older age but also the teacher could have advantage over the student in terms of controlling the student's mark. I told her the rational "19 year olds are emotinally vulnerable" would be a very weak rational as we can use that on anything thats happens in our society. I told her I could say its wrong to sell alcohol or credit cards to 19 year olds as they are very emotinally vulnerable and could be easily persuaded. If 19 year olds are emotinally vulnerbale what should be the legal age when you are not considered emotionally vulnerable ? But thats a whole different arguement. The reporter replied by saying "I was very vulnerable when I was 19" although I dont know why she said it. The reporter didn't give up on her effort to prove me wrong. Her next attack question was "How would you like it if your 19 year old child is sleeping with her 50 year old prof ?" I gave her my honest answer which seemed to blow her mind away. My answer was I wouldn't like it if it was my daughter having sex with her 50 year old prof but I wouldn't mind if its my son was having sex with his 50 year old prof. My friend Babak was sitting with me and he tried to rationalize what I said. He said and I agreed with him, that it was mostly because statistically a girl would put more in the line when it comes to having sex. Majority of the time (of course there are exceptions) a girl will not have sex with a guy just because of his good looks. A girl would have to get to know a guy at least a little bit first before she gives him access to her body. Usually a girl would never have sex with a guy if she considered the guy mean, rude and idiot even if the guy was very good looking. On the other hand majority of the time a guy would have sex with any girl anytime as long as he finds her attractive. Guys wouldnt even care if the girl was annoying or stupid as long as he finds her attractive he can have sex with her. Guys dont even have to like the girl they are having sex with so they have less (if nothing at all) emotions in the line. So girls would have more chances of getting emotionally involved in a sexual relationship then guys. Which was why I wouldn't like it if my daughter was having sexual relationship with her 50 year old prof. hmmm.

The reporter didn't understand what we were trying to say but wrote down everything we said and left. But she looked like she hated us. I can't wait for the article to come out and hopefully it will. :D

Saturday, January 20, 2007

Banker to the poor

The recent noble prize designation gave Muhammad Yunus the luxury to mediate his works and ideas through mainstream television. He appeared in number of famous television programs including Oprah, John Stewert, The hour, 60 minutes. Now that he got the noble peace prize everyone likes Muhammad Yunus, everyone is speculating and suggesting what he should do and what he shouldnt do and how this world needs more people like him. Thank god to the "noble peace prize." Can you imagine if he didnt get that "noble peace prize" all his theories and hard work would go invain. Oprah would have never called him the first place. hahahaha
I came across his book at my school's library and gave it a try. It was simply amazing. Its called Banker to the poor. In his book Yunus criticized the existing financial industy which includes bank, insurance companies, investment companies. Yunus suggested that every bank in this world should be called Banks for rich people as traditional banks do not cater or lends to poor people who dont have any money or collateral. To prove that banking could be done to the "very poor" segment in the economy in a very much profitable manner Yunus created Grameen bank in 1977. The bank which started on the basis of "micro credit" aiming to help poor people made handsome profit every year since then. Now Yunus's ideologies are being used everywhere in the world as an effective strategy to fight poverty. Here are some of the amazing paragraphs I came across throughout the breathtaking book "Banker to the poor" while finishing it in two days.

-In the traditional economic theory "developement" is veiwed simply in terms of increasing a nation's GNP. When the national economy picks up, the situation of the poor is not necessarily improved which is why there is poverty even in countries like United States. Therefore developement should be redifined and should refer to a positive measurable change in the per capita income of the bottom (poorest) 50% of the population.

-In economic Theory credit is seen merely as a means with which to lubricate the wheels of trade,commerce and inudstry. But in reality credit creates economic power, which quickly translates into social power. When credit institutions and banks make rules that favor a distinct section of the population, that section increases both its economic and its social status. In both rich and poor countries alike, credit institutions and banks have favoured the rich and in so doing have pronounced a death sentence on the poor.

(this paragraph below I thought is the best paragraph in the book and portrays Yunus's superb knowledge and background in economics)
- Competition in the democratic market economy should be encouranged but I (Yunus) oppose an economy grounded solely on greed-based enterprises. Society should create social consciousness-driven enterprises to compete with greed based eneterprises. A market driven by social consciousness is far more effective then a market driven just by greed. Globalization shouldnt be used to create more distance between the poor and the rich but should be used for the betterment of human society. Free trade must be encouraged and must mean freedom for the weakest. Globalization must create harmony partnership between the big and small companies rather than become a vehicle for unhindered takeover by rich companies. The rule of "strongest takes it all" must be replaced by a rule that ensures everybody a place and a piece of the action. Most of all I believe in "Equality of Opportunity" for every individual but not every individual should be equal in terms of economic condition.

What I liked most about the book was how Yunus portrayed what he theorized by actually doing it in action by creating and sustaining Grameen bank. Being an activist myself fighting against poverty I came across many different people with their ideas with what people should do and how economy should run. My general observation is that most of these activist have very very little idea and education about the practicality of how societies and economies actually operates. These activists dream of an Utopian society where everyone will be equal and at the same time these activist dont believe in compensating people for their hardwork and also dont believe in competition being an effective drive for the economy. I suggest those "communist" mentality driven activists should read this book. (at this point I should mention I was one of those communist mentality driven activist with a vision of Utopian society not too long ago... hahahahhaaha )

Sunday, January 07, 2007

ME Myself and I

I remember when I was in grade three and was just learning how to write essays in junior school my first essay was about myself. I still remember writting things like "I have two hands, five fingers and two eyes". I wamted to see how it would be if I write about myself now. I know people write about themselves in matchmaking websites and other social networking websites and when they do so its mostly positive things to make themselves look cool. i thought maybe writting it in a blog will give me both negative and postive perspective about myself and i will have limited people looking at it since my blog isnt that famous.

I am a lazy guy .. and hardworking at the same time. I would spend hours on studying and also I would spend hours at the gym. I would work hard and get good results and accomplish my goals. I read a lot of books (mostly non fiction) and watch educational movies......At the same time I would spend days doing nothing.. sitting on my ass.. smoking weed and think about my life.. not take showers.. not doing laundry .. watching Sitara on "You bet your ass".. jerk off to porn....raoming around from room to room .. surf social networking websites to check out girls.... embracing boredem... when people get to know me they usually describe me not as "he is a cool guy" but more often as "he is a good guy".... i know material success will not bring me happiness in the long run... but i still crave it like a motherfucker..I want lots of money and at the same time I wanna go to Nepal leaving everything behind and live in a buddhist monestary. Sometimes I lock myself in my room and read books all day trying to find answers to questions I dont konw of... I was a great musician and I love music and I describe music as the language of soul..but I destroyed my ability of becoming a musician...and sadly i dont regret it..at least not yet.. . I like competition and at the same time I dont like to be competitive... Sometimes I describe myself as a mixture of a muslim refusenik, buddhist and a strong believer of Abraham, Moses and Jesus... but i am too lazy to pray and follow rituals of any religion.. I have a beautiful girlfriend, best mother in this world, a great brother, whole bunch of good hearted friends.. but I still get lonely sometimes and fall into the hands of emptyness. I am only 24 and although I have great potential and great opportunity I am not too sure if what I want is what I want and to what extent i want it...I steal lines from movies and books and try to act cool... I talk loudly and really fast .. so fast that sometimes people dont understand me..I sound like a geezer... I Dont usually get bored easily and people have told me that I have a good sense of humor.. somteimes i get emotional to unnecessary things in life... At times i am very confident and have the "I Dont give a fuck attitude" and at times I talk like an idot and get nervous..I am very motivated, positive and my idols include Che Guevara, Nelson Mandela, Dalai Lama, Dr Yunus, my mother, Terry fox, Ron Jeremy and hundread others.
I dont know what made me so gay to sit down and write a blog about myself..its been a while since i updated my blog and I am also very horny cuz I havent had sex in last 2 weeks...

Sunday, December 17, 2006

Thanx a lot guys

My 24th bday was great. I wanted to thanx all my friends who made the effort of coming to fahim's last friday ..it was a blast.. i got it all vdo taped... ppl got wasted and did things they shouldnt have done .. hahah anyway .. special thanx to all of u
-nesar, jennifer fot the beer,
-tamal and mariam for showing up (u guys took a cab .so that u can spend more time with us.. aaahhhh thank u so much)..
-and ofcourse fahim and tasmia for hosting the party.. mamu thanx for dancing with me (at least i can say i wasnt the only wasted one):D.. thanx to tasmia for all the foood.. they were fukn good...tasmia's eyelids were always half closed for some reason ... :).
Shakil bhai .. i couldnt believer u were there .. :D ur pics were the best
and special thanx to my girlfriend for showing up during her exam ... I love u babe
Ill post pics as soon as i get..
I am old :(
Shaq diesel

Sunday, November 26, 2006

A nation within Canada ? What does that mean

Last week Canada's intellectual prime minister (who is loved by President Bush so much that he is called "Steve" by the American president) gave recognition to Quebec province as a nation within Canada. Upon some research I found out the legislation and constitution did not change and Quebec has the same previlige as before except for the recognition as a Nation within Canada. I did not understand. What does that mean.... a nation within Canada but has the same rights and previliges as all the other provinces ? So I guess Alberta is a nation within Canada too... Personally i think Steve didnt do a bad job as we all know what the Liberals under Jean Chrétien leadership has gone through and for which Paul Martin eventually had to pay the price. What I am curious about is what were the Quebec leaders thinking ?
its 2007 not 1208 AD.. Human beings are moving towards the future breaking all the barriers of differences, there you are whinning about just to get recognized as a nation ? Quebec has to be so different ? French is one of the national languages in Canada. all the highway signs from Nova Scotia to Vancouver comes in both English and French. Jean Chrétien gave Quebec more than 10 million dollars of non Quebec tax payers currency to satisfy your thirst and to stop whinning .... just to show that Quebec is considered as a province of Canada. but forget all that .. my question is.. what is the synergy (if there is any) that has been created by the recognition of Quebec as a nation? Quebec does not have any extra previlige then before .. then why ? I cant stop but thinking of Quebec as a little kid who wants nothing but to be called as a "nation". Now that you have got your most important "Nation" status .. just to point out that there are other less important issues in Quebec that Quebec leaders might want to adress in the parliament.. for example - homeless people, bettering education, increase in gun violence... but its ok... they can wait I guess ...

Wednesday, November 08, 2006

Hell in "Cafe Living well"

According to a waiter who works at "Living well", the cafe has been on yonge street for the last 25 years. First time when i was there the service and food was exceptional. so i recommended nesar and jennifer to come with me to living well cafe and try their sizzling fajita plate. But it turned out to be a disaster. me and nesar was already intoxicated before we arrived at living well so the experience was even worse for us. surprisingly when we arrived nobody was downstairs so we went upstairs and found out they were having some kind of "performing on stage" night. all the tables were full so we decided to go sit in the bar. the bartender was standing right in front of us although didnt approach us for the first 5 minutes. I thought maybe he was busy. The bartender walked by us, lingered around for another 10 minutes. No approach. By this time we (me, nesar and jennifer)were getting impatient thinking what the fucks going on. It gets better.Shortly after, another couple walked in and sat right beside us making themselves comfortable. Guess what ? the motherfucking waiter goes straight upto them and offered them his service within 30 seconds. At this point we were speechless, hungry and pissed off. Alreardy intoxicated I couldnt believe the act of racism that I was witnessing. We were probably the only non-white people around and the couple who just walked in were both white. I started cursing at the waiter and although I ended the situation by saying some mean things to the waiter , when we walked out I couldnt believe what I just witnessed. Who would have imagined a waiter working at a Cafe on one of the busiest multicultural street in the world would do something like that. WoW :D